I am all for moms who have a job. But, I don't get why many mothers can't stand being a sahm. What's wrong with staying at least a year or two raising your baby. You chose to conceive but don't want to be present in their lives much. Mother and baby are meant to bond and grow together, isnt it part of nature? I feel those first moments should be cherished. And you still will have time to go back to your other job. I already know it's tough and tiring , but it is worth, just like you feel the money you make is important. Sorry, but ia believe it's a woman's job to nurse and care for her baby, that baby needs to be next to his mother. So those mothers who also say they can't stand being a sahm, patience must be practiced.