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one night stand and now im pregnant

Anonymous
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ok so the short story here is i was going through a ruff break up so i decided to"get out" with some friends and a few drinks later i wound up getting a motel room with this guy (not my best move) we will call him jack (short for jacka**) . we exchanged numbers and texts back and forth a bit but didnt see each other again..... well yippee for my amazing luck i found out i was pregnant! in a panic i called to tell him and no surprise he freaked and then told me "he cant deal with this right now be cause his WIFE was already pregnant!!!!" omg i freaked i had no idea he was married! that was the last i heard from him till yesterday (6 months later) he asked me if i was still pregnant (well duh) and how the baby was doing. things went ok till he asked for a paternity test..... im sure he could tell i hadnt had sex in months (plus i told him he was the only candidate) whatever i dont need him i got this! im thinking of changing my number and just forgetting his existence...... what do you all think? is that the right thing to do?

Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 9, 2013 at 3:15 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 9, 2013 at 3:15 AM

bump

sandra_t00
by ChaChi on Jun. 9, 2013 at 3:16 AM
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I guess.

Go for it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 9, 2013 at 3:17 AM
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Just get the test. If he's the father and doesnt want to be involved, have him sign over his rights.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 9, 2013 at 3:17 AM
Abort
xoch86
by Platinum Member on Jun. 9, 2013 at 3:17 AM
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I would.. U don't need the drama with the wife, etc.. Especially when this was a one night thing
bonitalilmama
by on Jun. 9, 2013 at 3:18 AM
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do what you feel is right, if you can handle it yourself than have it

TaralynnStewart
by Ruby Member on Jun. 9, 2013 at 3:18 AM
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Can't really blame him for asking for one.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 9, 2013 at 3:19 AM
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i dont believe in abortion and find that very offensive its not my sons fault.... 

Quoting Anonymous:

Abort


 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jun. 9, 2013 at 3:19 AM
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She's 6 months pregnant, dumbass

Quoting Anonymous:

Abort
FlyingHottie
by Gold Member on Jun. 9, 2013 at 3:19 AM
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What will you tell your child if they want to know where they come from? Or if your baby has a condition that runs on the fathers side? 

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