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My dh gave me an ultimatum

Posted by on Jun. 9, 2013 at 5:18 PM
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He said if I'm not pregnant by July, he's getting a vasectomy. When we first starting dating, he said he wanted one more child and I told him I wasn't sure if I wanted anymore and now more than ever, I don't want a baby. I would like to hear from moms who do not have kids with their husbands. How did you guys decide on that?
by on Jun. 9, 2013 at 5:18 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jun. 9, 2013 at 5:19 PM

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danijean
by Platinum Member on Jun. 9, 2013 at 5:19 PM
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ThatSkinnyGirl
by FAT on Jun. 9, 2013 at 5:19 PM
LOL
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 9, 2013 at 5:20 PM
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So you are both on the same page?  That is a good thing, right?

Sekirei
by Sevrsaxhtharxxa on Jun. 9, 2013 at 5:20 PM
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his body... 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 9, 2013 at 5:20 PM
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So if you both don't want a baby, what's the problem?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jun. 9, 2013 at 5:20 PM
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That's a dumb ultimatum lol. If you don't want any more kids, don't see how that is a threat exactly. You aren't too bright though so you may see it as one
babegr75
by on Jun. 9, 2013 at 5:21 PM
If you are married then your husband needs your consent to get a vasectomy the doctor who performs vasectomy will give you a legal papers
MistyMoo
by Emerald Member on Jun. 9, 2013 at 5:21 PM
I'm not seeing the problem...
ReaIisticBeauty
by Platinum Member on Jun. 9, 2013 at 5:22 PM
He's not really going to get one, he said it because he was upset. I wish he would though.

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So you are both on the same page?  That is a good thing, right?

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