I was never very popular in school, but that never bothered me much, it seriously didn't because I have Asperger's and I'm not all that social anyway because of it.
Well, in the past couple months, I have had guys I went to school with suddenly interested in dating me! I have been approached by four different ones.
I am suspicious of this, and in the back of my mind, I feel that there may be some uterior motives. Here is the situation.
I have worked for a guy for the past, almost 7 years, whose career is taking off. I use my personal Facebook page to do some promotional work for him, as it's part of the job. I am kind of wondering if they have researched him, seen for themselves what's coming up (and I am under confidentiality agreements to where I can't even post EVERYTHING not cleared first.) I wonder if they think perhaps that they think I am earning some sizeable bank. The truth of the matter is, I am not and even if I was, I'd never reveal what I make. I get the bills paid...and that's pretty much it. My kids are fed, and we have a roof over our heads which is all that matters to me.
I also scratch my head at why four of them within a month or two of one another, who rarely ever spoke to me in school, let alone on Facebook, are suddenly coming out of the woodwork and laying the charm on thick.
I of course said no to all of them, because I'm asexual and aromantic and therefore I'm simply not interested to begin with but I am curious and wonder if anyone else thinks my "they think I have money they can manipulate me out of" theory is right on.