My best friend April has been friends with me since we were 5. My friend Julia has been my friend for 11 years. Julia is throwing me a shower. I'm afraid that April will be a little hurt that Julia is throwing the shower and not her. I threw Julia's shower so I know it can be expensive. She wants to return the favor, but isn't in the best financial shape. Should I ask April if she wants to co-host? Or would that be wrong?