It's BIOLOGY and it works like this...
MEN >>>> WOMEN >>> CHILDREN >>> PUPPIES.
It never works in reverse.
A man can simply NOT rely on a woman to provide him with what SHE expects to receive. If he does, she looses all attraction (and respect) for him. Therefore a man will always be "alone" in every relationship with any woman - including his wife.
• SHE gets to cry on HIS shoulder... but if HE does it, he's a wimp.
• SHE gets to expect support... but if HE does it , he's weak and insecure.
• SHE gets to expect to be the first to be rescued....if he does, he's a coward.
• The parent buys the child an iPod ... but when you ask to use it too, the kid says "it's MINE", and"stay out of MY room."
• What's HIS is "theirs"....... and what's hers is HERS.
Women , children do not return the same amount of love UP the hierarchy. It only works going DOWNward. It's the way it is. Its the way it always has been and it's the way it always will be. NO man can expect to recieve what he gives...and no man gets to expect a woman to bring to the table as much as HE brings to the table.
This reality is one of the HARSHEST for men to accept.
They cannot look to ANYONE but themselves - for anything.
This makes it IMPOSSIBLE for a man to look at a woman as his "equal".
For if he does... he will always be disappointed.
This is why when there is a fire... it's always MEN who run into buidlings to save other lives at the cost of their own. And it explains the female"victim" stance in every imaginable situation. There are never any feminists around when there is a fire. They run around screaming"WE DONT NEED MEN" until it's time to be rescued by a man.
Hell will freeze over before a woman is prepared to die to save a male life - or before she even CARES.
When a man dies, the first thought through his woman's mind:
"OMG, what am >> I << going to do, now.
Who will take care of ME. Who will support ME."
It's all about HER and HER kids.
This is why there is absolutely NO benefit for a man to sign a marriage contract under any circumstances
EDIT : I read it somewhere and find this topic interesting.
EDIT : My marriage is great but i find some truth in it as i have seen many women with this attutide.
This post was on Yahoo answers and yesterday on babycenter .It was the most discussed topic in babycenter. So i thought to post it here as well
But i do think ,men are considered weak and unmanly when they show emotions.