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um....idk about him anymore.....

Anonymous
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im 5 months pregnant,and a little over 2 weeks ago me and the babies dad broke up....i tried calling him to go to appointments with me but he never answered,so i sent him a message on fb. a couple days later he messaged me back telling me he doesnt want to be apart of the babies life anymore...so i asked his brother what was going on and why all of a sudden he's being so weird. his brother told me he(my exbf) is dating a girl about to turn 18 (age of consent is CA is 18)....i was going to give him the benifit of the doubt and wait until i had the baby to see if he came around but idk anymore.....idk what to do

(he's 24 btw,and im 26)

Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 15, 2013 at 12:46 PM
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MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Jun. 15, 2013 at 12:47 PM

 Well what are you planning on doing?

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 15, 2013 at 12:51 PM


Quoting MrsDavidB25:

 Well what are you planning on doing?

i have no idea honestly.....i dont even know if i want to call him when im in labor....

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 15, 2013 at 12:58 PM

bump

PinkHart
by on Jun. 15, 2013 at 12:59 PM
Move on and file for cs when the baby is born.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 15, 2013 at 12:59 PM

Never make a baby with someone who can't committ to you. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 15, 2013 at 1:00 PM


Quoting Anonymous:

Never make a baby with someone who can't committ to you. 

i dont believe in marriage sorry

my.sonshine
by Silver Member on Jun. 15, 2013 at 1:00 PM

 don't complicate your life that way. let him be a tool. seriously, it's just going to bring HELL. be smart.

jtsmommie0104
by Silver Member on Jun. 15, 2013 at 1:01 PM

Sounds like he has already moved on so you don't need to think much of him. 

my.sonshine
by Silver Member on Jun. 15, 2013 at 1:02 PM

 committing to someone has nothing to do with marriage.. although marriage is a commitment and would be no different than you making a life together with a person. just without the ring. so what is there not to believe in?

Quoting Anonymous:

 

Quoting Anonymous:

Never make a baby with someone who can't committ to you. 

i dont believe in marriage sorry

 

MandaJo111
by Bronze Member on Jun. 15, 2013 at 1:03 PM

It sounds like you need to move on hun.  Stop calling him.  If he wants to contact you he will.  Be sure to name him on the birth certificate and file for child  support right away as well.

If he wants to be a part of the baby's life he will request to.  Don't force him to do it.  He is an adult and he can contact you if he wants to.  

Hopefully he will make the right decision and be part of her life, but that is his choice.  Child support is his responsibility though.  

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