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First: BM is a very rude way to refer to a birth mother

Posted by on Jun. 15, 2013 at 9:25 PM
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Second: A birth mother is a woman who makes an adoption plan for her child.

Helpful Hint: The woman who gave birth to and parents your step child is her MOTHER.

by on Jun. 15, 2013 at 9:25 PM
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savannabooker
by on Jun. 15, 2013 at 9:26 PM
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Why is it rude to call a birth mom BM? It's just a shorter way of saying it instead of writing it all out....
TrouserMouse
by on Jun. 15, 2013 at 9:26 PM
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 I thought BM stood for bio-mom.  Doesn't bother me if someone wants to call me that. I don't give a shit.

An0nym0use
by Rock Lobster on Jun. 15, 2013 at 9:27 PM
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Everyone's gotta cry and be offended about something.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jun. 15, 2013 at 9:27 PM
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I always thought it meant "biological mother" which would be an accurate term to use when telling a story on CM. We're all strangers here, no one knows anyone's background, and that term helps stop any confusion. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 15, 2013 at 9:28 PM
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Really? This is what you choose to be offended about?

Suzy_Sunshine
by Gold Member on Jun. 15, 2013 at 9:28 PM

you are a mother, no caveat required

Quoting TrouserMouse:

 I thought BM stood for bio-mom.  Doesn't bother me if someone wants to call me that. I don't give a shit.


Amanda52007
by on Jun. 15, 2013 at 9:28 PM
BM is bio-mom.
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Suzy_Sunshine
by Gold Member on Jun. 15, 2013 at 9:29 PM
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are you refering to a birth mother or to your husband's child's mother?

Quoting savannabooker:

Why is it rude to call a birth mom BM? It's just a shorter way of saying it instead of writing it all out....


Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 15, 2013 at 9:29 PM
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I did have a BM when I gave birth though...
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jun. 15, 2013 at 9:29 PM
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The bitch who birthed my stepkids doesn't deserve the title of MOTHER....sorry.  She's the sorriest fucking mother I know.  BM simply means biomom.  I can always amend my reference for her to cuntbag...would that be better? 

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