ETA*** Yes, it's Father's Day ... But the trash didn't get the memo
I'm all for honoring dh for being an awesome daddy. He got a card from me, a card from the kids, a gift from the kids, and a gift from me. AND we will be eating at his favorite restaurant. Then watching his favorite movie (because that's what he wants to do) while I rub his feet.
Now, the trash is dh's "job" daily... For the last 12 years. All of a sudden he acts like its "his day" so he can't take the trash out.
Um, excuse me, but on "MY day" I made everyone breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Had to watch the kids while dh worked...forcing me to cancel the spa appt I made for myself. Which leads me to my next point. I got a card for Mother's Day. One single card from the kids and dh. No gift. No time for me. No favorite meal or movie or ANYTHING that I asked for or would've wanted to do. Not to mention, guess who cleaned the kitchen after 3 meals for the day?... Yep, me.
So guess what, sir. You WILL be taking out the trash...and thank your lucky stars that I decided not to bring any of this up on YOUR special little precious day!
ETA: you know what really gets me? ...were the tables reversed all these women jumping my case would still be on dh's side. i would be an ungrateful bitch of a wife for doing all the things he's currently doing and he would be a saint for paying me so much attention...the bitch that I am. you women are too much sometimes. does it make you feel better about your own miserable existence to bash other women? I refuse to allow any of you to make me feel bad about myself. I know I'm an awesome mom and wife. I don't need your approval or pat on the back. I came here to vent...I won't be responding to anymore negative replies. have a great day :)