UPDATE: I talked it over with my husband. He admitted that yes, part of what I suspected is TRUE. He said he is into the bondage thing. Not leaving me convinced, I am still going leave him. I have a lot of black male friends and, having such an intense gut feeling he IS racist, I will be sleeping with one of them tonight and emailing the pics to my husband. He wants to be so disgusting, I'll shove what he dislikes in his nasty racist face.*
Recently, my husband (white) has been asking me (also white) to call him Master in bed...
I know it sounds crazy, but I think it means he is racist. I caught him watching porn that had some non-white girls in it and it's making me feel sick to my stomach.
Seeing that, and him making me call him Master.... I think he's into slavery. I want a divorce.
ETA: how does him liking slavery NOT make him a racist? you all are the racists if you see nothing wrong in this! SLAVE OWNERS HAD SEX WITH SLAVES BY FORCE! Just because he likes them in porn doesn't make him NOT racist! So you are all saying slave owners weren't racist! Didn't think so!