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My sister was laughing as my BIl took his last breaths....

Anonymous
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I don't think she really loved him. Another family member called to let us all know. Then she let everyone like 30 people into her filthy home(cat crap litter in tub) mildew inside fridge etc.. to watch him die. He died on a sheetless mattress laying on the floor. My husbands thinks she was faking the short little cry at the end because there was no tears. Only from my BIL ex wife and my BIL sister and his mother and the MIL. No one even bothered to cover him up after he died. Until, my husband said we should cover him. My sister didn't even look at him as the mortuary were taking him out of the home. How can you laugh and make jokes when the love of your life is dying...I guess the 400.000 she got from the life insurance. He was only 30 years old and left behind 6 children. He died from cancer. I don't know ...still trying to figure it out.
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 16, 2013 at 7:32 PM
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ElitestJen
by on Jun. 16, 2013 at 7:33 PM

That's terrible....

MylittlePea
by Silver Member on Jun. 16, 2013 at 7:34 PM
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Grief can look really weird in the beginning.... I'm sorry that's terrible poor children
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Devious333
by Ruby Member on Jun. 16, 2013 at 7:34 PM
Wow...

$400.00 or $400,000?
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dolphingurl1286
by Silver Member on Jun. 16, 2013 at 7:34 PM
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 Wow! That's just heartless!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 16, 2013 at 7:34 PM
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I think it's pretty weird that you all gathered to watch him die.
peanutsmommy1
by Ruby Member on Jun. 16, 2013 at 7:34 PM
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People deal with grief and loss differently

I went to school the day after my grandpa died, and to work the day after my mil and grandmother died
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 16, 2013 at 7:35 PM

Quoting Devious333:

Wow...

$400.00 or $400,000?

Mommy2b2many
by on Jun. 16, 2013 at 7:36 PM

Thts horrible; those poor kids :( That sounds like a terrible living situation.

But she may just not know how to express her emotions. TBH when my grandfather died I laughed hysterically right outside the hospital and then at his funeral 5 days later; Thats was just how my brain decided to react; I didn't cry until about 2 weeks later

So_Devious20
by Misha Lovegood<3 on Jun. 16, 2013 at 7:36 PM

Grief has different stages for everyone. Not everyone cries in the beginning. Or in front of people.

Nickie76
by Silver Member on Jun. 16, 2013 at 7:37 PM
Karma will get her...
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