My ex husband has been dating this girl for about four months and my daughter was over at her dad's house this weekend.
My daughter is 5 years old.
On Saturday night she had a nightmare and went to sleep next to her dad.
Well, Xh was fine with it but gf wasn't having it. She told my dd to go to her own room after about ten minutes and xh was already asleep by then.
DD said no, she wanted to sleep by her dad. After about five minutes of going back and forth, xh's girlfriend SLAPPED MY DAUGHTER IN THE FACE! She then yanked my daughter out of the bed and practically dragged her to her room.
I am FURIOUS!
XH was angry when I told him, but he doesn't have the balls to say anything to the bitch.
I'm going to confront her after I drop DD off at a playdate today.
UPDATE: I went over to xh's house and very calmly asked gf why my daughter has bruises that look like finger marks on her left upper arm and showed her pictures. (I have pictures of my daughter's bruises on my phone)
I told her what my daughter told me and she didn't say anything.
My daughter has never complained about anything like this to me before and she doesn't have a history of lying, so I believe her.
XH's gf admitted to everything but didn't appologize to me or xh.
The whole time I noticed she was very rude and defensive towards me, as if I was going to steal her man.
After talking to my ex sister in law today (she's my best friend), she said that GF was like that towards my daughter as well.
I made sure to tell xh that I was very upset and that if he doesn't man up and say or do something soon, I will.