See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
My ex called and told me that he found out my 13 year old daughter had sex with her "boyfriend". I am shocked and still in denial. It happened while she was supposed to be at her aunts house. She snuck out and went to have sex. This happened last night. I am irritated that I just found out now. They found her at this boys house. His parents were not there. She admited she had sex with him on the car ride back. Iam waiting for my ex to bring her back home (he lives about 2 hours away). I do not know exactly what to do. She will be grounded all electronics taken away, and Idk what else. I dont know what else to do in this situation. She will never go back to her aunts house over night. I am just lost. She has always been pretty good, does good in school, etc. I guess I am just lost. I thought I raised her better than this. Sorry if this makes no sense. Obviously I have went wrong somewhere if she has done this. I really do not need to be bashed I am bashing myself already. UGH
Sorry for not updating sooner. When my daughter came home we had a long talk. She told me that he did wear a condom and that she didn't know if it counted and he did not even "finish" (shudders) They were both inexperienced. We went to the doctor the next morning and he gave her a pap smear. TMI but her hymen did not tear and a condom was used that chances are very small that she will get pregnant. We have started her on depo for now and she is going to be grounded for at least a month. When we were having our heart to heart she told me that she regrets it already. I hope that this time is enough for her to realize she should wait until she is ready