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Let's say you find out you've been lied to by someone close to you for 4 months. Major things and small things.

You argue and argue and eventually, you tell the person who lied that in order for them to EARN your trust back, and as a show of RESPECT, you have a RIGHT to know what they are doing and who they are with and what they are doing with the money that is suppose to be for what the family needs BEFORE they go out or spend the money.

They say you're being too controlling.

What do you guys think? (No right or wrongs!)
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 17, 2013 at 5:53 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 17, 2013 at 6:01 PM
I think it's a show of respect.
ksueditz
by on Jun. 17, 2013 at 6:03 PM
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i would think if they've been dishonest about where they are, and what they've spent MUTUAL money on, then yes, you deserve to know what's going on. BUT you have to really mean you are willing to forgive, and not be controlling forever. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 17, 2013 at 6:04 PM

I think unless that person is someone you are in a relationship with that you're over stepping your boundaries...

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 17, 2013 at 6:04 PM
Sounds like the liar intends to continue. If it has only been 4 mos, cut that person loose.
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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 17, 2013 at 6:05 PM
There is a relationship between the 2 people. They also have a child.
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