If only for a minute IS NOT OK!!! I cant believe the people that think it is ok! I guess I just forgot the kind of people in this world.. Not everyone can be a good mother I guess.. I feel so sorry for your children..
*Alone anytime they are awake.. diff rooms, down stairs down the street, etc etc.. if they are sleeping and u have a video monitor and can hear/watch them and u wanna go outside or downstairs etc etc that is ok***