I'm a Christian who's been happily married to a man for 13 years. We have 2 kids. I love dh with all of my heart and could never actually be with a woman but I'm physically attracted to them. He knows I find women attractive (its something we discussed while dating) and he knows that whole I love him and and happy being married to him I am not sexually attracted to him. It doesn't get in the way of our sex life, or anything else for that matter.
Now, onto the controversial part... As a Christian I don't believe that BEING gay is a sin. I do however believe that ACTING on those feelings is...(having sex with another woman). I cannot control who I am attracted to. But I can control how I react to those feelings.
The reason i consider myself gay even though I've never been with a woman is bc I'm sexually attracted to the female body...not a man's.
This isn't an "ask me anything" post. However, I dont mind answering questions.