How do you protect on child without ruining your other childs life?
I just found out tonight that my older son who is 16 now touched my daughter who is 12 now when he was between 12-13 and she was 8-9. Im devistated I dont know what to do or how to figure out what to do. I talked to him and he addmitted to doing it 5 times or more. He said he just touched her. I know she needs counceling and him as well Im just at a loss to where to begin I dont want to throw him to the wolves but I have to protect my daughter as well. He said that was the only time. hes an emotional wreck as am I. she told me it was once an he just asked her to do something. I havent pushed her its late and by the time I calmed down enough to not kill my son and just talk to him she was asleep. I just need some guidence on what I need to do. I have other children and I dont want dcf coming in and taking them away.