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A friends topless daughter...Should I MYOB

Posted by on Jun. 19, 2013 at 3:26 PM
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A friend of mine has a public page for her daughter. (We aren't best friends, but at one point we were. We live far away from one another now.) On this page she posts the wacky things her daughters says/wears/ and does on it. 

The page is SUPER cute. But it is a public FB page though and I've seen more than I can count posts of her in just pj pants. Just a skirt. Or out of the bath with a towel around her waist. Topless.

If this was a normal FB page locked down and mostly private I wouldn't bat an eye. This however is a public FB page that anyone can stumble across. I just don't want her images getting out for all the wrong reasons. ): Should I say something or MYOB?

Her daughter is 7 for the record. 

by on Jun. 19, 2013 at 3:26 PM
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sandra_t00
by ChaChi on Jun. 19, 2013 at 3:27 PM
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MYOB

If she doesn't see anything wrong, then leave it alone

I think people who sexualize kids are the ones that have problems. She is just a kid.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jun. 19, 2013 at 3:28 PM
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Report the photos on FB. She won't know it was you but FB has rules.

AllofFive19
by Ruby Member on Jun. 19, 2013 at 3:28 PM

I'd say something, simply because there are so many freako, creepy perverts out there.

twade26
by on Jun. 19, 2013 at 3:28 PM

Report her to Facebook if you don't want to saying anything to her.

nelliesmommy
by on Jun. 19, 2013 at 3:28 PM

I don't think it is right but I would probably myob. 

Glitchtastic
by Glitter Trauma on Jun. 19, 2013 at 3:29 PM

Well... it would be really easy for someone with the WRONG intentions to get ahold of those pics. 

I never thought this way, but I had a good friend have a husband that was raping her daughter right under her nose and she had no idea. I've been very on gaurd ever since. 

Quoting sandra_t00:

MYOB

If she doesn't see anything wrong, then leave it alone

I think people who sexualize kids are the ones that have problems. She is just a kid.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 19, 2013 at 3:29 PM
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I'm a little torn.  If you're good enough friends, you may want to bring it up with a "Hey, I don't know if you realize this, but the page you have for X isn't set to private.  I don't want her to be the target of one of those horrible internet scams or have someone with ill intentions getting a hold of her pictures."

Glitchtastic
by Glitter Trauma on Jun. 19, 2013 at 3:30 PM

That's how I feel too. 

Quoting AllofFive19:

I'd say something, simply because there are so many freako, creepy perverts out there.


saraadria
by on Jun. 19, 2013 at 3:30 PM

This.  There is no way a FB admin is going to let something that controversial stay up.


Quoting Anonymous:

Report the photos on FB. She won't know it was you but FB has rules.



alexsmomaubrys2
by Emerald Member on Jun. 19, 2013 at 3:31 PM

My DD is 7 years old. She spent an entire day on vacation completely topless and love it out in the sunshine.

She is 7 years old, she is a little girl. MYOB!

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