My dilemma is that Dh wants to go back to bahrain. He is an immigrant here finished his purpose and now wants to return to his family and raise our dd there. I do want to...especially because its beyond difficult to live with my mom. I don't have the heart to talk back or even raise my eyes to hers in anger. I have talked to her but realize it does no good. Her tumor is on her pituitary which gives Her severe mood swings. She won't hold the baby at all, she doesn't like to watch her even when I go to the bathroom. She yells at me when she loses things and cries when she finds them. She cries over the drop of a hat and screams over a knock at the door. Her language is very vulgar. I don't want my child to be around this she is 9 months old. I don't want her hearing this and seeing my mom like this.
I love my mom. I don't want to leave her. She is my everything and I know she needs someone. She has her brother and his family who lives in texas. They're calling her to live there when I leave and she's always wanted to move down there even before I told her of husbands plans...but I'm her daughter I feel I'm doing a serious injustice to her by leaving her side and I feel also I'm doing what NEEDS to be done.
We will be leaving next month but I will return for her surgery and to aide her in recovery.
I don't know what I'm asking for except what would you do or want to do or what is right to do in my situation ??
I'm done answering questions or looking at the post. I will leave it here for the people to read. When I made this post it's for opinions what I should do regarding my mother. I several time got called a pig for the religion people assume I follow, got bashed and called crazy for followings husband to bahrain, got info what happens if we divorce, etc. for your kind info, I lived on mid east for many years. You're not schooling me on stuff I was aware of. I simply asked for what I should do about my moms situation and got blasted about the rules of bahrain And my religion. I didn't asked what u ppl thought of bahrain.
Just absolutely appalled at the responses. I'm done looking or answering. Just leaving this here so people can read your responses.