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He promises to be honest with me if I promise to give him sex

Anonymous
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The title says it all. My exSO has been back and forth for a month trying to decide if he wants to be with me or the girl he was seeing before me. Friday he choose her and got back together with her. It hurt, but it is what it is. Last night, out of the blue he starts texting me, all but saying he made a mistake and choose the wrong girl. Starts asking to spend time and one more night with me to talk, hang out, and well obviously to have sex. Not once in the entire conversation did he say I'm sorry for all I put you through, tell his true feelings, and kept talking in circles. It was crazy. Now mind you he is still with the other girl, but claims it is already not working out. I keep telling him as long as they are together I will not spend a night with him. He will not cheat on her with me or be the other woman. He comes back with saying I would not be the other woman. So finally I tell him, if he wants time and sex with me, he has to be honest all the way around. He comes back with, I'll be honest if you spend a night with me, and if I don't give him that one night he will cut contact with me. I just kept telling him, than so be it.

All I keep thinking is really buddy, really? In all honesty I find the whole thing pretty hysterical. I so wisg I could post the whole conversation, but it is way too long.
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 20, 2013 at 7:23 AM
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AVSpecWife4
by Ruby Member on Jun. 20, 2013 at 7:26 AM
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Wtf... Post the conversation. I want to see

Princess_s21
by Sarah on Jun. 20, 2013 at 7:26 AM

 oh lawd, I think you dodged a bullet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Stop hanging around and giving him the opportunity to decide, for months!!! Move on and find someone decent!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 20, 2013 at 7:27 AM
It is really, really long. I'll have to do it when I'm not mobile.

Quoting AVSpecWife4:

Wtf... Post the conversation. I want to see

PinkyPan
by Ruby Member on Jun. 20, 2013 at 7:27 AM

Do not give this guy another thought. He is playing you both. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 20, 2013 at 7:28 AM
Oh no. I'm done. As soon as he got back together with her I was done. I am no ones other woman or second choice.

Quoting Princess_s21:

 oh lawd, I think you dodged a bullet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Stop hanging around and giving him the opportunity to decide, for months!!! Move on and find someone decent!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 20, 2013 at 7:28 AM
Oh I know.

Quoting PinkyPan:

Do not give this guy another thought. He is playing you both. 

AVSpecWife4
by Ruby Member on Jun. 20, 2013 at 7:28 AM
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Quoting Anonymous:

It is really, really long. I'll have to do it when I'm not mobile.

Quoting AVSpecWife4:

Wtf... Post the conversation. I want to see

Do it. I'm patient. 

QueenAtargatis
by Gold Member on Jun. 20, 2013 at 7:30 AM
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Manipulator.

Walk away.
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lucky2Beeme
by Ruby Member on Jun. 20, 2013 at 7:31 AM

Invite him over get him all hot.Hell let him take his pants off Then tell him to get the fuck out !

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 20, 2013 at 7:32 AM
Lol.

Quoting AVSpecWife4:


Quoting Anonymous:

It is really, really long. I'll have to do it when I'm not mobile.



Quoting AVSpecWife4:

Wtf... Post the conversation. I want to see

Do it. I'm patient. 

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