The title says it all. My exSO has been back and forth for a month trying to decide if he wants to be with me or the girl he was seeing before me. Friday he choose her and got back together with her. It hurt, but it is what it is. Last night, out of the blue he starts texting me, all but saying he made a mistake and choose the wrong girl. Starts asking to spend time and one more night with me to talk, hang out, and well obviously to have sex. Not once in the entire conversation did he say I'm sorry for all I put you through, tell his true feelings, and kept talking in circles. It was crazy. Now mind you he is still with the other girl, but claims it is already not working out. I keep telling him as long as they are together I will not spend a night with him. He will not cheat on her with me or be the other woman. He comes back with saying I would not be the other woman. So finally I tell him, if he wants time and sex with me, he has to be honest all the way around. He comes back with, I'll be honest if you spend a night with me, and if I don't give him that one night he will cut contact with me. I just kept telling him, than so be it.
All I keep thinking is really buddy, really? In all honesty I find the whole thing pretty hysterical. I so wisg I could post the whole conversation, but it is way too long.