I have a 5 yr.old son. He is in swim lessons at the local rec. center. Lessons are co-ed, and age ranges 4-8 yrs. old. The other boys in the class come with their dad. I take ds into the women's locker room shower and change after. Because the other girls are in there, I take him into the large handicapped shower stall and we get ready there. I make sure the girls are dressed before we exit. Despite all this, one of the mothers bitches every lesson to her girls, 4 and 7, about the boy in the room, how they need to stay covered, there's no privacy...etc. I don't get it, since we always go in first and wait to leave until they are ready. I'm not going to send ds into the men's locker room alone to shower and dress. Am I out of line here? If not, I'm going to say something.