She invited my step daughter, other sil husband and kids to dinner but not me and my husband won't stand up for me!!
**my dh does not see what the issue is. I don't want to argue but he has to stand up for me. I told him he shouldn't go and he says he's going. My bil told my dh that I shouldn't go because I must have better things to do or at least that's what my dh said. ****
*** I just updated my FB status to:
Me and baby are free tonight, no husband. #notinvitedtoparty
She lives on FB can't wait to see her response. Maybe I should just remove it and be the bigger person??**
*** update #2*** SIL invited all of my other SIL's family too. My husband is from Africa and will never put us 1st he puts his sisters and his brothers 1st. We have been married for 15 years and he's never changed. This is a new sil who just married my bil in April.
I'm not sure what I'm going to do I am at work until 3. I haven't had a chance to talk to dh again yet. It's so disrespectful to not invite your brothers wife. ****
***update #3****** Wow so many replies. Well I went always and sil told me oh I though bil told you not to come. I was like if my family is here I am here it's a package deal. Then my husband told her you can't disrespect my wife by nt including her, she's been in this family longer then you and will be here after you! If you don't like it we can all leave.
I was so happy that in the end he did stand up for me. I had to argue to get there but it worked.
We had the best time last night after the kids were in bed. He's a keeper even if he sometimes drives me crazy and his family is a piece if work!! ****