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low sex drive

Anonymous
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How do i make my sex drive higher? I love my man and i enjoy the sex we have when we have it, but that isn't very often (3 times a month if I'm lucky) and it's all my fault. I feel like if i don't get my sex drive up it's going to ruin my relationship.
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 21, 2013 at 8:53 AM
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Heidi615
by on Jun. 21, 2013 at 8:54 AM

Are you on birth control?

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 21, 2013 at 8:58 AM
I have the paragard iud(non hormonal)

Quoting Heidi615:

Are you on birth control?

Heidi615
by on Jun. 21, 2013 at 9:03 AM

 That could be the problem. I would talk to your gyno and see if he/she could prescribe / recommend something.


Quoting Anonymous:

I have the paragard iud(non hormonal)

Quoting Heidi615:

Are you on birth control?


 

spastic_poodle
by Gold Member on Jun. 21, 2013 at 9:05 AM
Sometimes you have to fake it till you make it. The more you have sex the more of a drive you will develope. So if you WANT to want sex, have sex. Masturbate. Get those loins moving. You'll feel it again :)
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 21, 2013 at 9:07 AM
He doesn't like when i fake it. He feels like shit when he knows I'm not into it

Quoting spastic_poodle:

Sometimes you have to fake it till you make it. The more you have sex the more of a drive you will develope. So if you WANT to want sex, have sex. Masturbate. Get those loins moving. You'll feel it again :)
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 21, 2013 at 9:07 AM
Start touching yourself more and explore... The more comfortable you get with yourself the better your libido will ascimilate to your sexual touches
L202M
by Silver Member on Jun. 21, 2013 at 9:09 AM

Read slutty books or watch porn

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 21, 2013 at 9:10 AM
I don't and have never liked to do that alone.

Quoting Anonymous:

Start touching yourself more and explore... The more comfortable you get with yourself the better your libido will ascimilate to your sexual touches
Stephd710
by Ruby Member on Jun. 21, 2013 at 9:10 AM

Get a lower hormone BC, are you on any depression meds?  Those can make your sex drive take a nose dive.  

spastic_poodle
by Gold Member on Jun. 21, 2013 at 9:10 AM
Aw, I'm sorry then. Masturbate more, that's a start. And ask him to give you relaxing/sensual massages. Once you relax you're more likely to be stimulated. This is going to take work on his part too but I believe you can bring it back. I sure did ;)


Quoting Anonymous:

He doesn't like when i fake it. He feels like shit when he knows I'm not into it



Quoting spastic_poodle:

Sometimes you have to fake it till you make it. The more you have sex the more of a drive you will develope. So if you WANT to want sex, have sex. Masturbate. Get those loins moving. You'll feel it again :)

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