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im thinking of having a baby with someone who is hiv +

Anonymous
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So my best friend and children's god father really wants a baby he is gay and has HIV so its going to be expensive but we were talking yesterday and thinking we would make good looking babies but I'm kinda scared because even with the sperm wash its not 100% that it won't make me or my baby sick... wwyd

Most of you didn't even really think about it you just said no... I just don't know how I can just shut it down like that even if I decide yes I want to wait a few years and let medicine advance a little bit more but honestly the risks with ivf are very low
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 22, 2013 at 3:21 AM
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LucyHourglass
by on Jun. 22, 2013 at 3:23 AM

oh good lord please dont. what if your baby gets hiv?

SaratheV
by on Jun. 22, 2013 at 3:23 AM
That's really stupid.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 22, 2013 at 3:24 AM
Please don't be an idiot.
crumpy_gat
by No. on Jun. 22, 2013 at 3:25 AM


PrissyKrissy02
by Gold Member on Jun. 22, 2013 at 3:25 AM
You're joking, right?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 22, 2013 at 3:26 AM
On one hand, you're not being responsible or fair to your current child(ren).. On the other, you are being very selfless to your gay friend. I think you need to think logically! I'm sure this pulls on your heart strings, but come on.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 22, 2013 at 3:26 AM
Its like a really small chance... it would have a higher chance of having downs syndrome why is it stupid?
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 22, 2013 at 3:28 AM
http://www.hiv.va.gov/HIV/mobile/index.asp?page=/patient/faqs/conceiving-with-mixed-HIV-status-couple&
allornone
by on Jun. 22, 2013 at 3:28 AM
1 mom liked this

One word..adoption.

SaratheV
by on Jun. 22, 2013 at 3:31 AM
Do you know how sick ARVs make people?
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