My best friend is throwing me a baby shower for mine and DH's second child, first boy though. I am so excited, the Shower is next week, I am due August 2and. SIL is due at the end of August.
DH's family have decided that it is mine and SIL's shower. The invite specifically say the shower is for me but several of DH's family members have said they will be bringing a gift for SIL too. WHAT? It is my shower, they can give her a gift another time. SIL is encouraging it and keeps hinting that I make it a double shower.
No one is throwing her a shower, MIL is lazy and doesn't throw shower or things like that for people (DH never had a real birthday party as a kid) and her boyfriend's family aren't even interested in going to a shower because he already has 4 kids with 2 other women so they feel they have gone to enough showers.
SIL has also asked me for my DD's baby clothes and was angry when I said no. I am sick of her sense on entitlement and I am thinking about telling her she isn't invited to my shower, this way she can't make it about her.