So... I am well aware of all the laws and recommendations regarding car seats and I follow them.
My children stay rear facing until 40 pounds, etc.
But, when I see other people choosing to risk their children's lives by not following this, I don't care.
It doesn't bug me.
I am super annoyed by other things that are parenting taboos but not this one.
It's the one thing that doesn't bother me because I figure if you are dense enough not to care what happens to your kid in case of an accident, then you deserve to have a dead child because that is technically what you're asking for.
I know other parents who are horrified by that more so than parents that spank or refuse to attempt breastfeeding and I think they're weird.
I am amazed how intense and self-righteous the pro-carseat moms are.
That is something that doesn't affect anyone else truly, unlike things like breastfeeding trends or raising spanked children, etc.