So when I was 8 months pregnant in 2010 I knew in my heart that my man had cheated BUT didn't know for sure until a year later! I gave him a second chance and here I am 3 years later crying my eyes out in my living room while that piece of shit sleeps in the king size bed that I had baught. To make a long story short I started to trust him again and I let him go out for a "boys" night which ended up not according to his text messages.. he was texting a girl under the name robyn which isn't her name of corse, and the last message was "baby, I want u to come back so bad, she ruins it for us all the time.." and more messages about when he's gunna have time to come over? when I confronted his drunkin a** about it he called me all the names in the book. We have been together for over 8 years and we have a 3 year old son? How can he do this? What do I do? I'm freaking out.