Does you SO compare you to his ex often? Even if it's some what bashing her?
Nope. He does not compare me to anyone at all. He does not bash her at all either. I am glad. I think twice before being with someone who bashes an ex and takes no responsibility.
He used to, when we first started dating (when it wasn't completely serious). Once he realized that what we had was going somewhere, and that I was nothing like his ex (the prior as a result of the latter, lol), he stopped that dead in its tracks.
My boyfriend has admitted his faults in the demise of their marriage, but his ex acts like she did nothing wrong at all. But, he on a regular basis compares everything I do to her, weather it be me doing laundry, cooking dinner, and cleaning. I told him I was frustrated that I've been working out and eating healthy, but I've mainained the same weight for 2 weeks (finally started losing it!) and he said his ex lost this much weight doing this...it's just frustrating. I've told him it's annoying and I'm tired of being compared to her, but he still does it. He's an amazing man, and we get along perfectly, that's just the one thing I get annoyed with.
Quoting Ms_mom_81:Nope. He does not compare me to anyone at all. He does not bash her at all either. I am glad. I think twice before being with someone who bashes an ex and takes no responsibility.
He doesn't have any ex's :) Nothing to compare me to....he pretty much worships the ground that I walk on. Love the man!
We've talked about her before in great length, mainly because her father ended up marrying my dh's aunt after they broke up. His ex is now part of his family and we have to see her often, she has also been known to start shit often. Anyway, when she is mentioned or a comparison is being made it is ALWAYS painting her in a negative light. Basically he makes me look like a goddess compared to her, it's nice. The best part is that I don't even have to do anything to be better. I just have to not cheat on him with 11 different guys in their bed while constantly screaming at him and hitting him. Easy enough lol.
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