Quoting Anonandon:If you don't know him well enough to discuss money, stop fucking him.
How is he your BOYFRIEND if you aren't comfortable enough to talk to him about finances? It's either talk to him about helping with the pills or you will be dealing with him for the next 18 years chasing him for child support.
i completely agree!
it should also be 50/50... you take care of your portion- with birth control... and he take care of his portion, with condoms or spermicide or whatever guys have. i dont think i would've ever asked my ex to take on half of my birth control even though i knew his income and we were together for 5 years.... if i couldnt afford it, i also wouldnt be having sex... just b/c, knowing me, i'd probably end up pregnant and if i cant afford birth control, there's no way i could afford another baby!
How long have you known him?
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