Dad and Mom divorced around age 11. It was a very messy divorce. Dad was psychotic, possibly on drugs, had cameras hidden around the house, body guards he hired to follow him because he said my mom was trying to kill him and he was trying to get full custody.
My mother one full custody because my dad was a fucking lunatic and not safe to parent children. My mother could seriously never hurt a fly. Shes a sweetheart.
My dad was ordered to pay child support and alimony, and basically skipped town. He moved to hawaii. Hides his income. and refuses to pay child support. he pays sometimes but just very little so they dont come after him, but it took YEARS of my mom chasing his ass to get it lik ethat. and most the time he still doesnt pay it. he owes back childsupport still.
he never was there for me or my 3 brothers. my mom was a single mother to 4 kids. she made everything work. I love her. hes an asshole.
out of nowhere, he starts to message me on facebook. after years and years of no contact.
"I would like to come out and see you, what do you think?"
I think FUCK NO you psychopath.
I just asked him "why?" but what is going on?
the other day he called my mom and asked if they could just be friends and put the past behind him.
do you think hes dying or something?