So, dh and I have decided it is best if our children are not around his parents without one of us there. They are alcoholics and had been sober, but not anymore. Fil is drunk most of the time, and a mean drink to boot. Ds adores them though. He's 3. I don't know how to explain to him why I keep having to tell him no he can't stay with them. It breaks my heart to see him hurt over this. Does anyone have any advice to make this easier?