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i can't be friends with my best friend anymore

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We are both single, but I'm in love with him. I realized that 2 weeks ago. we got in a fight Friday and I had not talked to him since. I've been sad and missing him but really had no intentions on apologizing or making up. Tonight he randomly showed up and when I opened the door and saw him I felt so much better...but after talking to him and stuff I realized my feelings are way to strong to just remain friends. He doesn't know this at all. But now I have to figure out how to tell him, if I'm not honest with it then he will just keep coming back. I dunno..how do I tell him? Souls I just start ignoring him or should I be honest?
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 25, 2013 at 2:43 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 25, 2013 at 3:03 AM
But I won't get over it.that's why our friendship needs to end


Quoting gigis1:

I told mine. I told him not to worry, I'd get over it eventually

paganmommy4
by on Jun. 25, 2013 at 3:05 AM

be honest, he might feel the same way

justone_jen
by Gold Member on Jun. 25, 2013 at 3:06 AM
If it's going to end regardless, what have you got to lose?

Quoting Anonymous:

But I won't get over it.that's why our friendship needs to end




Quoting gigis1:

I told mine. I told him not to worry, I'd get over it eventually

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 25, 2013 at 3:06 AM
I know it sounds crazy because it hasn't been that long but from the night we met in December until now we've saw each otherother every day.... he lived here for 2 weeks, my kids and him adore each other... It just sucks BC it's nothing kite than just friend and I know this and even if he dud decide he felt the same way, I honestly couldn't be with him... His life is a Mess right now...that's why I think I need to end it all together.


Quoting justbreatheOx:

Tell him! I think you might be surprised. How long have you guys been friends?

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 25, 2013 at 3:07 AM

Just take your clothes off and see what he says.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 25, 2013 at 3:07 AM
I just dint want to look like the dumb girl...even though that's what he likes..lol hmmm the irony!


Quoting justone_jen:

If it's going to end regardless, what have you got to lose?



Quoting Anonymous:

But I won't get over it.that's why our friendship needs to end






Quoting gigis1:

I told mine. I told him not to worry, I'd get over it eventually


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 25, 2013 at 3:08 AM
The second night we hung out he stayed at my house and I asked him if he wanted to sleep in my bed with me, he said no.


Quoting Anonymous:

Just take your clothes off and see what he says.


justbreatheOx
by Platinum Member on Jun. 25, 2013 at 3:09 AM
Maybe you could write him a letter. I think getting your feelings out would be good for you since it seems like they're really eating at you. Feelings suck, trust me, I know!

Quoting Anonymous:

I know it sounds crazy because it hasn't been that long but from the night we met in December until now we've saw each otherother every day.... he lived here for 2 weeks, my kids and him adore each other... It just sucks BC it's nothing kite than just friend and I know this and even if he dud decide he felt the same way, I honestly couldn't be with him... His life is a Mess right now...that's why I think I need to end it all together.




Quoting justbreatheOx:

Tell him! I think you might be surprised. How long have you guys been friends?

gigis1
by on Jun. 25, 2013 at 3:10 AM
I didn't either. I just wanted to keep talking to him and that's why i said it.

I loved him.

I just wanted to always know how he was doing and didnt want to stop talking.

We eventually got together, apparently he felt the same


Quoting Anonymous:

But I won't get over it.that's why our friendship needs to end




Quoting gigis1:

I told mine. I told him not to worry, I'd get over it eventually

katemckenzie
by Kate on Jun. 25, 2013 at 3:10 AM
Be honest. You don't know if he has feelings for you or not. He could be hiding them just like you are bc he thinks you don't have feelings for him.
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