Ex refuses to sign divorce papers I've given up on wanting to marry my S/O
Not just given up, but I've made myself believe maybe marriage isn't for me anymore. My husband(whom I might as well say that since I can't say soon to be ex) keeps denying the marriage isn't broken after 2 years of separation. In my state you have to be separated 2 years in order to continue your divorce if the other party doesn't agree with you in the terms. He lives in the marital home, I live in an apt with my s/o and our child. In the beginning I really wanted to marry my s/o and thought this divorce could be done and over with sooner. My husband wanted the same thing to have this over with. Yeah right, he lied. He's arguing about property to have all assest split and my idiot lawyer put it in terms of distributing without marital misconduct, along with denying the marriage is broken just so I can't remarry. Meaning I only wanted items that are mine alone, not part of 'ours'. I have retrieved MY items over the summer so property should not be an issue anymore. Long story short, I'm done playing these games and just going to continue moving on with my life with my new family. My s/o and I haven't discussed marriage for many months now. We've been together going on 2 years. Yes I admit around the same time and reason why I left my husband. It was simply the marriage was going down the toilet and I was miserable. I'm not goign to waste any more money paying my lawyer to do anything else more since there is nothing else that can be done. I can't afford court fees, so fuck it. My relationship with my s/o is still going strong despite the fact. I will regret that it'll be a shame when the time comes we can't make descisions on each other if any emergencies would occur, but I have to deal with that when the times comes. So, my husband wants to stay married, fine, I'll keep going on as if he doesn't exist.