What do I do about it? I don't think he's ever used a hamper, he just throws his clothes where ever he feels like. When he eats he leaves dishes and wrappers where ever. This one really bothers me, he really likes PB&J sandwiches so he'll make one for himself, he'll leave the jelly open on the counter, the peanut butter open on the counter, the bread bag open on the counter, a dirty jelly covered spoon on the counter, and crumbs everywhere because he won't make it on a plate. He takes his sandwiches sets them on the arm of our chair gets crumbs all over it. I have told him multiple times that this really bothers me yet he won't stop doing it. How can I get him to stop doing this?