I was told recently on a CM post that I should examine myself and ask what I did wrong to MAKE him stray.
I MADE him stray? Is there really a causal link between our imperfections as a spouse and infidelity?
My husband is far from a perfect husband, but I've never felt inclined to cheat on him BECAUSE of it. I have been far from a perfect wife but the suggestion is that because of this I somehow hold part of the blame for his betrayal?
I chose to stay with my husband and try to make our marriage work. So of course I had to examine myself and my mistakes as a wife, but not to explain his betrayal but rather to explain why our marriage was failing and to make an attempt to start over without making the same mistakes.
What do you think?