My best friends baby will be 1 July 20th. Since he has been born I have been like the second parent. I took him for a week when she was sick, I watch him full time for free, I take him when she wants to go out, I go get him just because. She has not planned a party for him. It's a long story but he was not planned or well excepted by her family. So I have planned a party for him here. She is fine with it. But other people think I am overstepping. I think every baby deserves a first birthday and as the other adult that has supported him (physically, emotionally, and financially) through this first year, if she won't I will.
Am I overstepping?