This guy does steriods and has a temper. He has slammed my friend's head into a wall and pulled her by her hair to the ground. He says the most horrible things to her. I....being her best friend....really DON'T like this "man". However, we live over 300 miles from each other so it's not like I have to hang out with him.
I'm planning (or was planning) to visit her and her son....and bring my kids as well. Her "man" says she cannot hang out with me and our kids without him. We're talking about ONE DAY here. I don't want to be around this guy so I guess I won't be seeing my friend. She is also supposed to be IN my wedding this Fall. She plans to stay at MY house. Now she says she cannot unless he is welcome too.
I'm NOT one of those people that can "fake it" around people I strongly dislike. I DON'T want this guy at my house or wedding. Am I wrong?? I feel like she is forcing me to be around him. They constantly argue and break up. I don't like him and I don't want the drama....especially when I'm getting married!
I do feel like IF she doesn't come to my wedding and be IN it as planned....our friendship will be over. I've known her my whole life. I was IN her wedding (her wedding with her son's father). I don't think I'm being selfish but maybe I am. I would NEVER insist on bringing my SO somewhere they weren't welcome nor would I skip out on my best friend's wedding because my abusive POS boyfriend isn't welcome.