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An honest look at Infidelity - cheaters please read

Anonymous
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What were the circumstances in which you cheated?
Was it a one night stand or were feelings involved?
Did you tell your S/O or spouse?
Did you stay or leave?
Do you feel guilty?
If you could take it back would you?
What good or bad has come of you being unfaithful?

A big sincere thank you to all the honest ladies who responded to this post!
Please, no bashing here. My intention is to have an honest discussion about the motivations for and effects of infidelity on the lives of the women who have cheated not to put one another down or be judged for the choices they have made!
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 28, 2013 at 12:18 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 28, 2013 at 12:25 AM
Bump
Dzyre1115
by Desiree` on Jun. 28, 2013 at 12:26 AM
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 I've never cheated, here's a BUMP!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 28, 2013 at 12:26 AM
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Thanks for the bump!


Quoting Dzyre1115:

 I've never cheated, here's a BUMP!


Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 28, 2013 at 12:27 AM
I've been with someone who was in a 6 year relationship. Thats as far as I've gone
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 28, 2013 at 12:29 AM
So he or she was the cheater?
Was it a relationship or one night stand?



Quoting Anonymous:

I've been with someone who was in a 6 year relationship. Thats as far as I've gone

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 28, 2013 at 12:30 AM
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What were the circumstances in which you cheated? Emotional abuse
Was it a one night stand or were feelings involved? One night stand
Did you tell your S/O or spouse? Eventually after a seperation & an agreement to start fresh w/no secrets
Did you stay or leave? Stay
Do you feel guilty? Yes
If you could take it back would you? Yes and No
What good or bad has come of you being unfaithful? Good ~ we have a stronger relationship and better communication. Bad ~ sometimes things I say or do make him think of it and he'll withdraw for a little bit.

storkneedsgps
by RoseTyler on Jun. 28, 2013 at 12:30 AM
Bump for you
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jun. 28, 2013 at 12:31 AM
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Before I answer. I would like to ask you why you want to know?
robibuni
by Platinum Member on Jun. 28, 2013 at 12:31 AM
I cheated on DH back when we were dating. No sex, I just kissed another guy. I genuinely liked the other guy...DH was just so wrapped up in his work that he never had time for me. I didn't tell, but he found emails to and from the other guy.

We broke up for a few days but ultimately decided to make it work and later got married and now have two girls. I also went to therapy to deal with attention issues and that helped :)

ETA: I used to feel guilt but it brought us closer together in the long run.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 28, 2013 at 12:31 AM
We were fwb.

I was in a 2 yr relationship. Engaged.

We eventually left our partners and eventually got together.

We're still together and have a baby and are engaged.


Sounds like a disaster huh? I was skeptical as well.

Quoting Anonymous:

So he or she was the cheater?

Was it a relationship or one night stand?






Quoting Anonymous:

I've been with someone who was in a 6 year relationship. Thats as far as I've gone

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