my mom and dad divorced when i was 17. my dad got married to a woman last year that was his high school sweetheart. at first, i thought this is going to be awesome. he is happy. he is so goodhearted. heres the kicker though......she lives in colorado. we live in the carolinas. she hops a plane and comes out here every 6 weeks. she has destroyed every relationship my dad has with all of us (his two daughters and three grandkids). the man would give the shirt off his back but if shes here, its like we dont exist. she acts like a friend when someone upsets you and then goes back and tells them what you said with her own twist on it. he is supposed to move to colorado in january and i know things will never be the same. I HATE HER. If you have an evil ass stepmom, how do you deal with her?