I havent heard from DH so I just texted him not to come home *update*
First of all, yesterday was DD's 1st birthday! Later today in the afternoon we are throwing her a party with friends and family. I have been the one arranging everything, decorating, baking, etc. For the past few days, DH has been doing a side job, sanding, welding and painting a horse trailer. Well he has been working on it tonight and said he'd help me clean up the house for the party. Once the kids were in bed, I spent the night having fun at first. Neighbors stopped by and I hung out a little bit outside drinking a beer then went inside to paint the living room and clean; DH went back to his side job. I went outside about 2 hours ago and he was gone. No lights were on at any of the neighbors houses. I called and texted, no answer. I still have yet to hear from him. I am not his mommy. I'm not the type wanting to know every single place he goes. However he knows I like to know if he's stepping away for a bit, especially if it is late and since our kids are young. With tomorrow being our daughter's first birthday party, I'd expect him to help me out a little bit. A shower calmed me down but before that my heart was in knots because I have no idea where he is. And it has been about 2 hours. I am so hurt right now :( I even smoked half a cigarette and I quit smoking months ago.
He walked in about 2:10 am and came right into the bedroom saying how he was ONLY NEXT DOOR FOR 5 MINUTES geting more sanding pads. I told him it was more like 3 hours. He looked at the clock and said he didn't realize it was that late, apologized and asked if I was mad at him. Uuuum YEAH! And how was I supposed to know he was next door if all the lights were out? And I heard no one talking. Those were 3 hours of precious time he could have used to help me. I know the trailer needs to get done but he keeps messing around with neighbor chit chat and shit...so it isn't my damn problem.