i cant believe it,he cheated on me while i was with my grandma! edit*update
iv been with my bf(29) for 4 years,he is my dd's "dad"(not bio,but he's been in her life since she was a year) and i went on a trip to visit my grandmother in the hospital,so i took dd with me,and i told him i didnt know when i would be back(i was going to come home when she got out of the hospital).well today i left at 5 and got home at 8...when i got home he was sleeping,but there was also a half naked girl in bed with him.....i recognized her from the harley dealer that he goes to to get parts for his bike,shes not even 21......i told dd to go play at the play ground next to our apartment,i didnt want her to see that. so i walk into the apartment,and i shake the bed waking both of them up....and i told them both to get out.......so now im alone....and sad......and im trying to hide it from dd but its not working,idk what to do :( she already asked where he was
edit: dd came out of her room and asked again why he left,and i just told her that me and him werent together anymore,she then asked me "well whos gonna get my from school and take me to the pool" and i told her that i would and that was enough for her lol on the other hand,my friend just texted me telling me he told her why he cheated,shes going to call me on her break and tell me why,so i guess i'll update after that
update:i just got off the phone with my friend,she asked my ex why he was there with some 20 year old from the dealer and he told her that i caught him with her in my bed. then she asked him why he cheated on me and this is what he said "i have nothing in common with her,we have 2 completely different lives.she likes staying inside and hates camping and hiking and horses,i want to be outside all the time and she(pointing at the girl i caught him with) likes doing those things,plus she likes the same music i do and Gabbie absolutly hates it" my friend then asked why he stayed if he felt that way and he said "because of dawn,and i know your going to tell gabbie everything,so tell her its been 4 months since this started"....well now i really dont know what to do.....
edit:dd's asleep and all i want to do i drink the tequila i have.......yay for me