I got my hair done at a salon today and the girl ( she's 22) I'm not much older by the way said she just married a marine that she's only known for a few months . She's moving across country to live with him later this year . She said her toddler sons dad has never been in the picture so she's glad she'll no longer be a single mom. I then replied yeah and I'm sure he is really good with your son right ? That's when she dropped the bomb and said well ... Actually they've never met . I was dumbfounded . Who the heck marries a person when they don't even know how they'll be around their child. Maybe he's a great guy I dunno but that sounds crazy to me. How could a respectful man marry a woman without even meeting her child ? And vice versa. I just smiled politely and said " oh ". I know she wasn't lying about getting married or moving bc the other girls in the salon were talking about it to her too. I just can't see how you could put your child in that situation of Poof one day here's your new daddy !