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Do You Ask or Tell Him ?

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Your SO/Dh......like if you want to go get a new dress...do you tell him you're going to go get one, or do you ask him if you can go get one?  

If  you want new towels....do you go get them or ask his opinion?


Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 30, 2013 at 8:04 AM
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MixedCooke
by Platinum Member on Jun. 30, 2013 at 8:26 AM

I get what I need because I usually get things on sale or clearance.

SWasson
by Silver Member on Jun. 30, 2013 at 8:26 AM

My clothing is my business. If it's shared towels, I'd ask for his opinion on colors.

IandLoveandYou
by Penny Lane on Jun. 30, 2013 at 8:27 AM
A dress I get.. New towels, he can help me pick them out.
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randomosityblog
by on Jun. 30, 2013 at 8:28 AM

I usually just go to the store and get clothes while she's at work, then model them for her when I get home. If she's home, she will either come with me or I'll say hey.. going clothes shopping.

Towels.. eh.. that's more like a chore. She does that stuff.

Angela_Barlow
by Platinum Member on Jun. 30, 2013 at 8:28 AM
I just go.
happykitty316
by Gold Member on Jun. 30, 2013 at 8:29 AM

If I want a $15 maxi dress at Target, I tell him.  If I want a $250 cocktail dress, I ask his opinion.  If I want new towels or pots & pans or whatever, I don't even ask his opinion unless he is in the store with me.  I get what I need.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 30, 2013 at 8:30 AM
I discuss every purchase with him before I buy anything, he is in charge of our finances for the most part.
CrossStitchMum
by Gold Member on Jun. 30, 2013 at 8:33 AM
Towels I would just get. Something major like a dress I would ask him because he would notice that amount gone from the account. Clothes are expensive!
tapies2324
by Silver Member on Jun. 30, 2013 at 8:33 AM
I'm the main breadwinner so I get whatever I want and yes, I do expect him to ask first.
Benjamins-mama
by Platinum Member on Jun. 30, 2013 at 8:42 AM

I just get them.

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