Thinking it was him when she picked up i said hey old man whats up......her response "who's this?" I answered with "This is his oldest daughter, who's this?" She proceeded to give her response and said my dad left his phone at the bus station.
She knows about my brother and sisters but had no clue about me and his grandaughter. Guess my dad isn't as proud of my daughter and me as i thought. He pinned his hopes on me and when i got pregnant at 22 he told my sm i was ruining my life and wasn't going to amount to anything.
I feel guilty now for subjecting my daughter to this man who isn't proud of me for what i didn't accomplish, he's not even proud of me for what i'm doing on my own i've only needed his help once and i guess in his eyes once is too much. My stepdad sees being a grandpa and honor but my dad not so much.
It seems like my dad would be more proud to be a grandpa than anything considering he begged me to make him a grandpa.