Well I can. But damn. A friend of mine lost three children in a car accident last month when she was hit by a drunk driver. They had fallen on hard times when the company she and her dh worked for closed down. They had six kids. She just told me this other lady just told her it was probably a blessing since they were jobless and the money they got would last awhile.
I know this other lady. Always considered her a friend. But holy shit that was so low to say to her.