What do you do when your dh and you are not on the same page when it comes to parenting? When he does nothing as far as discipline or enforcing any rules? No bedtimes, playing video games for as long as they want (literally all day and all night), not picking up after themselves, and not having any responsibilities is what I mean. I understand they are not here fulltime but my kids see this behavior and I don't want them growing up thinking it's okay. I prefer structure and a schedule. I prefer my kids have chores, clean up, go to bed at a decent time even during the summer, and not sit on some form of electronic 24/7. It drives me nuts and I feel completely overran and almost like a guest in my own home when they are here. I've tried talking to dh about it and he agrees we should enforce certain rules but then when it comes down to it I am the only one doing the enforcing so I am seen as being "mean" or "too strict". The kids have even made comments like "this is the only time we get to play games" or "but our mom makes us do chores all the time at home". So it's obvious they should know what is expected but dh has let it go on for so long. How can I gain some control of my home and turn things around?