I just got home from picking DS up from his dads house. It takes 5hrs round trip for a pick up or a drop off, that's why it's so late.
Anyway, XH has had a gf for 8 months which is not the issue! She is a good girl and very nice.
I can overlook DS sleeping in between them. I can semi-overlook her giving DS a bath because obviously XH pawns DS off on her all the time but what I'm upset about is DS told me that he got a shower.....okay? He then tells me Mrs. X took a shower with him!!!!!!!
Typically DS doesn't get a shower (he's 5 as of 1 minute ago!!!) unless I'm in the glass shower and he's in and I'm outside making sure he bathes properly. I stopped showering with him last year just bc he started getting too curious about our differences.
I am NOT okay with another woman getting a shower with my 5 year old son! Imo, it's extremely inappropriate! For one, they've known each other a whole 8 months and immediately started dating!
On top of this, DS told me he sleeps in bed with a few different girls....older teens and early 20's-ish when they don't sleep at his dads house.
Am I the only one who thinks this isn't okay? Like I said I know I can't do anything about it but I had to get that out of my head!!
I haven't been on CM most of the day or night and I haven't had a chance to read all of the replies. First of all, thank you to everyone for your support. Secondly, we've been celebrating DS' birthday all day today so I haven't had a chance to do anything about the situation.