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I just cleaned my Ex's House!

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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Okay Technically he is not my ex, we are still married but we have been separated for 2 months. 


Anyways he still live in our house, The kids and I live with my dad, I come over here during the day while he is at work to do laundry, because my dad's dryer does not work and I don't see why I should have to go to a laundry. Well the house is (was) a disaster, the kids rooms and his room were clean but the kitchen looked like a bomb went off in there and so did the living room. I scrubbed and cleaned and vacuumed and threw away 2 big bags of trash. It looks 283749283% better!!


I didn't do it for him I did it for the kids, the spend tues and wends night here, they don't need to live in a mess


That's my confession

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 2, 2013 at 1:59 PM
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barneysaid
by on Jul. 2, 2013 at 2:00 PM
That's nice. & he doesn't like to clean?
barneysaid
by on Jul. 2, 2013 at 2:01 PM
I probably would of done the same thing...
momma4vr
by Gold Member on Jul. 2, 2013 at 2:01 PM

i hope he thanks u :)

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 2, 2013 at 2:02 PM
Why did you not keep the house? ??
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 2, 2013 at 2:03 PM
I've done that before plus did other repairs with him and his brother at the house they own together.
angelachristine
by Ruby Member on Jul. 2, 2013 at 2:03 PM

that's what i want to know too.


Quoting Anonymous:

Why did you not keep the house? ??



twade26
by on Jul. 2, 2013 at 2:05 PM

Why did you move out if you have the kids?

amber710
by Platinum Member on Jul. 2, 2013 at 2:06 PM
Thats nice of you. I would have done the same. There is no point in being resentful or nagging at someone whose actions/choices you have no say in anymore.

I would want the kids to have a nice 2 days with their dad too. For their sake.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 2, 2013 at 2:09 PM

Because we are filing bankruptcy and will lose the house anyway, he has no where to go, unless he rents an apartment, plus I have only ever woked part time and cant pay all the bills on my own so if I stayed I would have no way to pay the water, gas ect. My dad has a 4 bedroom house that they kids and I fit and are comfortable in and he wants us there. Since we will have to move eventually may as well make it easy for everyone involved

Quoting Anonymous:

Why did you not keep the house? ??


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 2, 2013 at 2:14 PM

He won't but, like I said it was for the kids not him so I don't expect it!

Quoting momma4vr:

i hope he thanks u :)


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