My little boy died, and now I'm having a new baby. Help?
Posting anonymously to keep people from knowing who I am through my kids that have passed away.
My two kids were killed in 2008. I remarried in 2012, and now I'm 6 months pregnant with a little boy. Would it be appropriate to put my dead son's first name as one of my baby's middle names? I just need some insight because it seems like nobody else in my real life knows what to say to me about this. I only want to memorialize my lost son, not replace him. :(
EDIT: My son and daughter were murdered by their father/my ex-husband. No, I will not confirm who my kids were or who my ex-husband is.