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Is this a form of molestation?

Anonymous
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Mind you this happened almost 30 years ago, it was never reported, and I have only ever told a handful of people in my life. I am going anon because it is not some thinf I really like talking about. I don't want family or friends to know and some are on here.

When I was little, age 3-7 or so, some times I would spend the night with friends of my mom's. They would babysit me so she and my stepfather could go out. On the nights I stayed there he would come into the room I was sleeping in and have my "play with him", if you get what I mean. He never touched me in any way, but he would wrap my hand around him and, well you get the idea. This happened every time I spent a night with him and his wife. It evem happened once on a trip we all took, my mom, stepfather, sister, that guy, his wife, and another couple. My mom and srepfather slept on the first floor while the guy, his wife, and I slept in the loft. One night while we were there he did it while his wife was asleep next to him. I had a nightmare and she let me lay beside her, he moved between us once she fell asleep and did that with her asleep next to her.

I guess I know the answer to this. I think I just needed to get this out.
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 2, 2013 at 9:32 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 2, 2013 at 10:32 PM
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CassaNova
by Bronze Member on Jul. 2, 2013 at 10:34 PM
Wow yea, that was very wrong. It's weird your mom would let you sleep with the other couple when your mom was there. But that was a long time ago.

I'm sorry this happened to you. Things like that happened to me as well.
bex55
by on Jul. 2, 2013 at 10:34 PM

Definitely molestation. I am so sorry you experienced that. You should see someone to talk about it. Hugs. <3

Lovemyshadows
by on Jul. 2, 2013 at 10:34 PM

Bump

momma2mms
by Kristin on Jul. 2, 2013 at 10:35 PM

It is abuse! How did she not know? She was in the bed. I'm sorry.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 2, 2013 at 10:35 PM

I am sorry you went thru that . It is very uncomfortable. I was once touched by a neighbor he was like 80 when it happend and I never wanted it to accept it until not too long ago. I was around 7.

rhope4
by Gold Member on Jul. 2, 2013 at 10:39 PM
Definitely abuse. I was molested by a distant cousin, and he did things similar to me as well. If you need to talk, feel free to pm me. I will not judge, and I will protect your privacy. It was hard for me to talk about at first too. Sending hugs.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 3, 2013 at 4:07 AM
I was in a separate bed as them, but I had a nightmare. The wife didn't want me to wake every one up trying to wake up my mom and my mom was never good at calming me after nightmarea. I was always on my own with that.

Quoting CassaNova:

Wow yea, that was very wrong. It's weird your mom would let you sleep with the other couple when your mom was there. But that was a long time ago.



I'm sorry this happened to you. Things like that happened to me as well.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 3, 2013 at 4:12 AM
Yes it was! I'm sorry that happened to you. My babysitters son did this to me but it only happened twice.
Princess_s21
by Sarah on Jul. 3, 2013 at 4:15 AM

 Yes it is, how horrible for you. Why on earth would you sleep upstairs with another couple while your parents are downstairs, sounds very odd, what were your parents thinking!

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